Saturday, June 27, 2009
Canned Beef Stew
Friday, June 26, 2009
Fresh Peaches
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Is there a Non-Seeker Friendly Church around?
- I want a church that sings mainly hymns, out of the hymnal. Why? Hymns help reinforce our Christian beliefs. I visited a church today (well, actually two - read on and you will find out how I did that during the 11 am hour). It was a nice size church with a good age range of members/attendees. When the music started it sounded like a garage rock band. A bad garage rock band. I got up and walked out. If I wanted the rock band sound I would continue at Northpoint. At least they do an excellent job (although the decibel level is a bit too high). The second church, just 5 minutes away from the first one, took a while to find the sanctuary. When I did, lucky me, someone went back inside. When the doors opened I heard the music. Nope, not looking for a rock band. I am looking for a TRADITIONAL church.
- My husband wants a church that has people close to our age and has children. That is a good point since we want to have children and don't want them to feel like they are in a nursing home.
- My husband wants a medium size church, one where we can get to know people, be known, but not be able to count the families in the church on two hands.
- We both want a church where we will be encouraged to grow spiritually.
The emphasis on many churches is to reach out to the unchurched, to bring them in with music. I know from experience that if the preacher teaches the people according to the Bible, the church will be overflowing. I know an interim pastor who is an excellent teacher. Whenever he steps in until a pastor can be called, the church grows until overflowing. Then the pastor, nine times out of ten, divulges from the path the people want and need, and the church goes from two or three services back to one, and not well attended at that.
Seekers don't want contemporary music, they want to know God. Those who want to avoid God but have the cloak of 'church' seek contemporary music. When I go to 'seeker friendly' churches I feel out of place and can't wait to leave so I can have a bit of quiet to ease my throbbing eardrums. Sheesh, the music is loud enough for deaf to feel. And the strobe lights - they are similar to epilepsy or seizure testing lights. Hmmmm, interesting.
We both want to be active in church, develop friendships (hopefully before we are expecting our first child), and feel comfortable. Is this too much to ask? Evidently it is for the Southern Baptists, the PCA Presbyterians. Next week I will be going to an Episcopalian church. Wonder if I will have to walk out again?